But there are those who would call both of us wrong in doing so. They'd call us bullies, haters, etc. For how dare we put down another human being? How dare we not care about their feelings? How dare we make ourselves chuckle at the expense of another?
Hell, you can see a good example of this out there right now on just about any social media feed. Unless you've been living under a rock, you're aware of Pokemon Go. I hear it's a pretty hot game right now. Well, first came the game. Then came the memes poking some fun at the game. And now, as anyone living in this day and age could probably predict, comes the shaming of those memes. How dare you make fun of someone having some harmless fun? If you do, I've lost all respect for you. Blah blah blah.
Fuck that, I say.
|Eat a sammich!|
Now, that's not to say that a singular instances can't make you a horrible person. I've already covered this and what a dick it takes to do such a thing. But once again, I'd argue the intent is definitely there
There's another side of mockery, though, one those who are overly sensitive don't want to admit exists - and it's entirely harmless outside of perhaps being annoying. Why, because that's all it's trying to be. It's just trying to make a joke or make people (including themselves) laugh. There might be a bit of doucheyness behind it, but there's no ill intent otherwise.
That's actually one of the most common complaints about my Tome of Bill series. People have said the main character is (insert your favorite ist, istic, or phobic here), whether it be homophobic, racist, misogynistic whatever. I'd argue you're inside the head of a character who's a flawed human being just like the rest of us, and with that comes every good thought he has, but it also means you're privy to every petty, juvenile, or uninformed thought as well. And I purposely write him that way because I think it's simple human nature to have thoughts like these. That all of us have someone(s) we secretly fear, mock, don't understand, or feel superior about. What counts, though, is how we act or don't act upon those thoughts. Actions speak louder than words. And thoughts are just that ... words in our head.
We give too much power to those words sometimes. There are times when we should let those words into our soul, but there are far more times when we should just shrug them off and get on with our day.
|Goddamned Pikaphiles should be locked up|
That's where I think most of this backlash comes from. As I said above, none of us are perfect. We all have not-so-nice thoughts from time to time. The difference being that some want to have their not-nice thoughts about others, but don't want others to have those same thoughts about them or their beliefs. There aren't many guarantees in life, but I'd be willing to put my money down on at least one sure bet - ANYONE who has ever said "How dare you mock XYZ?" thinks they're the exception to the rule and has some group or person that in their mind they think is A-okay to mock away at.
There's a great deal of hypocrisy there, whether or not people want to admit it.
Of course there's the big problem of who draws the line on these things. That's subjective. Hell, even I've already drawn my personal lines in the sand with my link to a prior blog post. I'm not immune to a bit of hypocrisy myself in saying it's okay to do this, but not that. There's no easy answer to that one, but as I said I believe intent plays a big part in things like this.
All I know is that there are some who want us to live in a world where we watch what we say for fear of what others might think. Me, I'd sooner take the good with the bad and live in a world where we don't let the words of others have so much power over us.